In dynamical systems theory an attractor represents a state toward which a system tends to evolve. Even if starting with different initial conditions, under certain circumstances, we find the same pattern emerging. Moreover, even if the system is perturbed close to an attractor, it stabilises and remains close to it. Dynamical systems in reality mostly arise from some dissipative process and if it were not for some driving force, the system would cease to move. The driving force and the dissipation balances out each other and settles the system into the attractor. When Nature wants something, charm is applied and transforming formless into form follows the attractors of morphogenetic/morphic fields. These fields are like invisible forces around beings and happenings, driving the dynamics to very special attractors. Our higher self is the main driving force, our main source of momentum. Our attachments to the world on the other hand generate dissipative processes. It is the most charming melody created by these two sides that we are constantly listening to, in solitude and every day. The morphogenetic fields are self organising and contain other morphic fields within them in a nested hierarchy. They contain a built-in memory given by self-resonance with its own past. This memory is cumulative. It is built around catchy, charming melodies of attractors, that pull our self organising power into certain directions, to people and relationships, fateful encounters. While we are listening to it over and over again, as it is practiced, we become more sophisticated and elegant in identifying unity and sameness.